Seniors Recognize World Elder Abuse Awareness Day

Members of the Bay St. George Coalition to End Violence (BSGCEV) spent several months planning their annual Seniors Kitchen Party in recognition of World Elder Abuse Awareness Day.

June 15, designated by the United Nations, is recognized world-wide as World Elder Abuse Awareness Day. Since 2010, the BSGCEV under the Regional Coordinating Committee of Southwestern Coaltion to End Violence hosts an annual kitchen party for seniors.

This event is held in appreciation of our seniors while offering a fun, interactive afternoon of music, fellowship and information.

108 seniors, plus committee members, community resource people and committee members came together on Saturday, June 17, 2017 to pay tribute to the pillars of our community-our senior population.

During the afternoon, seniors were treated to a delicious hot turkey dinner, with celebration cake for dessert to go along with their good cup of tea/coffee. Of course, nothing compliments a good cup of tea like a Purity bickey.

Several information display booths were inviting to those attending and each could walk away with valuable resources regarding their sexual health, programs and services available with NL Power for those living on a limited budget. Other booths offered volunteer and past-time options such as Lions Club, Women’s Center and BSGCEV.

The assembled group were greeted by MHAs John Finn, and Scott Reid. Michelle Felix brought greetings and well-wishes on behalf of the MP Gudie Hutchings and Stephenville Town Councillor Don Gibbons welcomed everyone in from the Bay St. George area.

Guest speakers encouraged everyone to live an active lifestyle. Lisa Henley, Wellness Facilitator with Western Health offered the benefits of a healthy lifestyle, while YMCA fitness instructor Paula Woodfine engaged them in some physical activities that everyone of any age, any medical issue or mobility can do to keep active.

Several dancers with the Twilight 50+ Club got the party started with a couple of toe-tapping numbers with all invited to join in as Overflow tuned up the band for an afternoon of lively music and dancing.

Feedback reports a great time had by all, with many new faces vowing they will be back. Most reported that they were leaving with valuable information and new friendships made.

As one 4th grader so creatively put it on their placemat that colored the tablesetting, “No one ever injured their eyesight, looking on the brigh side of things.” That’s a great way to live each of our days, no matter how many we have. Thank you to all the seniors who have given so much of their time, efforts and energy to be positive role models to our current generation. Hopefully, we’ll make you proud!

True Colors for IDAHOT

May 17th marks a day when 120 countries come together in unity to support gender equality, sexuality and gender orientation. A day whereby the LBGTQ community and those who support and love them show their true colors and rally for the day when sexuality, gender expression is not a thing but just is.  May 17 is IDAHOT: International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia. 

In recognition of today, the Bay St. George Coalition to End Violence partnered with the Western Pride Committee to hold a proclamation signing and flag raising event, inviting the community. Twenty-six individuals gathered at the Stephenville Town Hall in celebration as Mayor Tom O’Brien, with a small child sitting on his knee, listened as Chantel Drake, Chair of Western Pride Committee, read the official Proclamation. As he signed to cheers and applause, he declared May 17th International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia. To which he added, “While May 17th is the designated day, every day should be a day where we are all equal!”

High and proud, the Pride and Transphobia flags can be seen flying outside the Stephenville Town Office. While inside, during every council meeting, a smaller replica can be seen sitting just to the front of the Mayor himself. 

Following the official ceremony, the diverse group of people, devoted to educating and rallying for change, gathered for refreshments and conversations. As one youth, hair colored with pride, sat proudly in the Mayor’s seat and assisted with the flag raising, one can only reflect that this is as it should be, a world where young people do not fear to be themselves, to be free to love and live as they choose. A world where one is not subjected to discrimination or punishment for being happy. 

As Margaret Meade said, “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.” Here’s to changing the world, one color at a time.

Each of us have a duty to ourselves and our world. As Prime Minister Justin Trudeau stated during a statement released for IDAHOT,  “Today, I ask Canadians and people around the world to fight hatred, honour love, and defend human rights for everyone. Together, we can build a world where all of us are free to be who we are and love who we love.”

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Be Bold for Change-International Women’s Day Celebrated

Over 130 men and women, individual and group representatives, gathered today, March 8th, to celebrate International Women’s Day.

Bernice Hancock, Chair for the BSG Women’s Centre’s Board of Directors, thanked and welcomed all for taking the time to celebrate in solidarity. She spoke of the “importance of recognizing and celebrating the accomplishments of all women who have come before us and who are with us today.”  She encouraged each to support and listen to each other, to take value in the work of all women to “create a bold new vision of a world where we are safe, supported and equal.”

Following a hearty brunch, Jenny Wright, Executive Director of St. John’s Status of Women, delivered an empowering keynote address. She congratulated many women’s groups, particularly those in rural Newfoundland and Labrador for being bold in the women’s movement, having seen countless successes, among them being the BSG Women’s Centre who organized and held the first peace walk in Newfoundland.

Ms.Wright regarded how women are bold from the time they wake up in the morning, until they put their heads back on their pillows, in every aspect of their lives. Bold  in their choice to marry and bear children; bold in their choice of career even when faced with a salary inequality; bold when running for political or leadership role, quoting “there have only been 39 female MHA’s since 1949.”  She spoke of how it is time to not be silent anymore, that “women want change.” She encouraged the audience to remember that it was not formal organizations that are responsible for feminism and change in our province, but “that much of the change came because one woman stood up and said this is not right.”

Although women and girls all come from different places in their lives, each has the ability and power to make change. She shared 14 opportunities for action and reflection, something she created in honour the 14 women murdered in 1989 during the Montreal massacre.

College of the North Atlantic, Community Studies student, Miranda Targett was the recipient of the Stephanie Cormier Chaisson leadership award. Presented in honour of a dedicated woman from the Bay St. George area, who is remembered as being a “devoted mother, dedicated worker, who was born a leader.”

Wrapping the afternoon’s events, Executive Director of the BSG Women’s Centre, Janice Kennedy, declared she and her staff would be closing for the day at 2:44 pm this afternoon. A symbolic stand to show support for equal pay, she encouraged everyone to join the efforts in making a stance regarding the gender wage gap. In essence, women get paid for 82% of their work hours, in relation to men’s 100% pay.

Through purposeful collaboration, we can help women advance and unleash the limitless potential offered to economies the world over.

To all women and girls worldwide…#BE BOLD FOR CHANGE!

Southwestern NL STANDS UP to Bullying

If you happen to be in and around towns, schools, government buildings, just about anywhere in the southwestern region of Newfoundland on Wednesday, Feb. 22 you would have noticed a similarity…PINK! Everywhere!

Under the Violence Prevention Initiative of the government of NL, local coordinating committees of Bay St. George Coalition to End Violence, Peaceful Communities and HELP Committee partnered with several organizations and schools to promote violence prevention in their respective communities. 

While the month of February is Violence Prevention Month, schools recognize the third Wednesday of February as STAND UP day or Pink Shirt day. A day where students, faculty and staff wear pink shirts in support of standing up against bullying, instead of standing by; an idea that originated in Nova Scotia when two high school seniors donned pink shirts after a Grade 9 student was ridiculed for his choice of colored shirt.

Each school has its own creative way of promoting the idea. Like St. Bonafice All Grade School in Ramea whose
classrooms decorated their doors in a Violence Prevention theme. How about the Pie Contest that Burgeo Academy held integrating fun while educating on the importance of violence prevention. There are many ways to show support and kindness like students in Port aux Basques who, during their Random Acts of Kindness Week, wrote thank you letters to local first responders. Students at the College of the North Atlantic’s Paramedicine accessorized their uniform with pink bowties for the day. Staff and students of Keyin College-Western Campus sported their pink shirts.

Teaching our youth about the importance of violence prevention is vital, however, this issue is not just limited to the young. Violence knows no age limit, race or religion.  Therefore, it’s great when you go to your local public health nurse’s office and see the staff in their pink shirts. Or when you drop by the local grocery store to pick up something for dinner and are offered a piece of cake, decorated in pink icing and pink balloons everywhere. In Stephenville, on a Monday night during the weekly bingo, patrons came dressed in pink clothing of all sorts, with one senior gentleman having gone as far as to have his granddaughter paint his fingernails pink. Businesses 
windows and doorways welcomed customers with pink posters, decorations and merchandise during that day!

What an amazing feeling to know that Southwestern NL is taking a stance and STANDing UP to bullying and violence and refusing to stand by any longer. To quote singer/songwriter Sam Cooke, “Oh what a wonderful world it will be!” Together we will make it happen!

Check out our Facebook page to see many more pics of how pink southwestern Newfoundland got.

Community Cafe goes Pink

The monthly Community Cafe held on the second Thursday of the month at the Stephenville Lions Club, this month went pink!

The Bay St. George Coalition to End Violence sponsored February’s cafe as part of their Violence Prevention Month activities.  Patrons were welcomed to a world of pink as they entered in anticipation of their free meal provided by sponsors of the Southwestern Housing Stability Initiative’s project.

The Bay St. George Status of Women’s Council displayed their pink tree adorned with inspirational ornaments. Volunteers sported pink shirts, tables were dressed in pink clothes with a Stand Up sign welcoming everyone as they entered.

With a hot meal, an awareness of violence prevention and information patrons left feeling warm and informed.

February is Violence Prevention Month

As declared under the Violence Prevention Initiative, February is Violence Prevention Month and so says, Stephenville Mayor Tom O’Brien.

Several community members, adorned in pink, stood in support as Bay St. George Status of Women Co-Chair Sherry Chaulk read out the declaration with Mayor O’Brien making it official with his signature during the Stephenville Town Council meeting yesterday, January 26, 2017. Reading from the Proclamation, he announced, “I am pleased to proclaim the month of February 2017 to be Violence Prevention Month. I encourage all residents of Stephenville to recognize that violence prevention is everyone’s responsibility and support violence prevention activities in our community.”

Each year the Southwestern Coalition to End Violence and their local coordinating committees offer various activities and events in the southwestern region. Local schools avail of Violence Prevention Month grants, receiving kits including t-shirts, videos and recommended material for display and use.  The most popular event being STAND UP day. This year on Feb. 22, 2017 students, faculty, business and government staff will don their pink shirts to show their promise to STAND UP not stand by.

In addition to school activities, a community challenge is issued to all businesses, government offices, organizations and post-secondary training institutions  to Paint the Town Pink in support of this initiative.

There are many ways we as individuals can show our support of Violence Prevention as well. Changing our Facebook profile to pink for the month, wearing pink on Feb. 22, posting a “Pink”ie Promise to Stand Up to bullying on Twitter or Instagram. Teach our children how not to bully by being a positive role model. The
re are endless ways to show our support. And remember, while February may be the month to promote awareness, Violence Prevention is something we each need to make a daily part of our lives.

 

 

 

 

 

Tears,Beers and Slot Machines

Tears, Beers & Slot Machines

-unknown

 

T’was the weekend before Christmas

In a tavern I was there,

Putting the bucks in a slot machine

And drinking that bloody beer.

 

I only had one daughter

She was cute and very young,

I never knew the sadness

That into my life would come.

 

She stood outside the tavern door

She was scarcely six years old,

No socks, just sneakers on her feet

As she shivered in the cold.

 

The tears streamed down her frozen cheeks

As she called out loud and clear,

”Please Daddy, come home with me,

And don’t drink no more beer.”

 

“Please Daddy come and stay with me,

You know I love you so

With Mommy home upon the floor,

I have no place to go.”

 

“Mommy, she’s not feeling well,

And she has gone asleep.

I tried to wake her Daddy

Bu I’m too small and weak.”

 

Her daddy couldn’t hear her cries

As he played the slot machines.

His eyes glued to the spinning wheels

While his daughter called again.

 

No answer still and the spinning wheels

Shrouded her sweet young voice.

And his daughter sat down so tired and cold

On a doorstep filled with ice.

 

“Daddy can you hear me

It’s very cold out here.”

But her daddy played the video game

And drank down one more beer.

 

A man looked through the tavern door

When he saw the little girl outside.

“Will you tell my daddy that I’m here?

Tell him Mommy died.”

 

The teardrops down his cheeks did roll,

As the stranger clasped her hand.

And once inside the tavern door

She to her daddy ran.

 

***********************************

 

That night was dark and dreary

And his wife could take no more.

She took an overdose of pills

And died upon the floor.

 

There’s a lesson to be learned my friends

From slot machines and beer,

And families left alone at home

By husbands you do not care.

 

I learned my lesson really well

And paid a heavy price.

And lost the person that I loved

Who I took form my wife.

BSGCEV paints Main Street purple

On Friday, November 25th, passers-by and pedestrians were witness to Main Street, particularly the section around Coleman’s parkinunnamed-7g lot, transform into a purple world. unnamed-4
The Purple Ribbon Campaign is a province-wide event that creates public awareness with hopes of positive change in societal attitudes and behaviours regarding male violence against women in Newfoundland and Labrador.

The Bay St. George Coalition to End Violence could be seen, with the assistance of the Town of Stephenville, decorating the two light poles in front of Coleman’s in purple. Following, volunteers made their way inside to hand out purple ribbon magnets and lapel pins to all customers and staff.

purrib2016bsgcevEveryone is encouraged to show their support by placing the magnet on thunnamed-6eir car, and wearing a ribbon to help spread the message that violence of any kind is unacceptable.

Following the purple ribbon decorating, many attended the Town of Stephenville office, where Mayor Tom O’Brien signed the proclamation, declaring the Purple Ribbon Campaign and 16 Days of Activism launched.

The Purple Ribbon campaign begins on November 25, the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, runs through the National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence against Women on December 6, and ends on December 10, International Human Rights Day, encompassing the 16 Days of Activism against Gender Violence.